Ready to Reclaim Yourself & Reignite Your Relationship?

FIFO Love, Life & Relationship Coaching with Pamela
Take the Relationship Quiz Now!Let's book a Free Chat!

What are you struggling with right now?

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the endless responsibilities of running the household, work or playing both parents?

Feel stuck and alone in your relationship. Communication is becoming hard!

Feeling disconnected from your partner and just hoping that the relationship will get better?

Are you feeling totally unappreciated, disconnected and alone in your relationship? Your partner seems more like a roommate than a soulmate. You feel like your needs are not being met. It’s like your partner never listens to you. And you don’t feel much like listening, either, which is creating distance between you and your partner. Your relationship is lives inside a never-ending cycle of frustration and unhappiness, and you can’t make things better no matter what you try.

Despite it all, you know what you want your relationship to be. You want it to be strong and you want it to have a foundation of love, respect, happiness and fun. You want your partner to be more connected with how you’re feeling and what you really want. You longing for more affection toward each other, and have feelings of desire rise up naturally between you.

 Believe it or not – You really are not alone, these feelings and problems are very common. The problem is that most couples think they can have a strong relationship and keep the positive feelings going for years based on love alone. And love is a wonderful starting point, but you need the right skills to keep a relationship strong and thriving long term.

Here’s how I can help

You need to understand the problems in your relationship and why they continue. You have blind spots when it comes to the way you’re coming across to your partner. You pretend that everything is OK because you don’t want to wreck the mood. You keep secrets to yourself to avoid hurting your partner’s feelings. You’ve been doing all the wrong things to keep the loving connection with your partner and feel good about ourselves. And these wrong strategies have been keeping you stuck in your relationship. And unless you know what your blind spots and hidden issues are, you’ll just end up trying more of the wrong things and ultimately failing to re-ignite the spark you once had.

You can break free from the negative patterns that have been running your relationship. And working on your relationship doesn’t have to feel like hard work or feel scary. In fact, it can be fun! No matter how difficult it seems at the moment, things can change. You can have a deeper and more fun-loving connection with your partner again.

The different ways we can work together

Courses and Programs

My online courses and programs are designed to guide you step-by-step through some of the common challenges you experience in a relationship.

Learn the playful secrets to awakening your passion, rediscovering your cheeky side and have a deeper connection with your partner.

W.I.W Club

Not ready for counselling or one on one coaching just yet?

The W.I.W club is for women who are ready to feel fabulous, empowered and in love with their life while they learn how to build a strong foundation to create a fun, loving, intimate relationship filled with passion, excitement and spontaneity, the one they actually want!

Coaching Services

Your life and relationship are unique and don't fit in the traditional story of life and relationships.

But neither does my services, and each of my services offers a personalised, life-changing experience.

No matter where you are in your life journey, I have a life and relationship service to support you.

Not sure this is for you?

Click through the tabs to see how my coaching services can support you.

For women who are in a relationship and are feeling disconnected with their partner. If this is for you, you will be committed to strengthening your intimate connection and creating more fun and love in your life.

You may already be trying to make changes in your relationship but you are not really happy with your progress.

You are likely feeling lost and frustrated with the way your relationship is going and fed up with experiencing a lack of intimacy, fun and that, all essential, romance.

You have lost the closeness with your partner and your relationship is no longer fun.

My coaching is for you if you are feeling isolated, frustrated and disconnected and want a clear direction and confidential unbiased support to strengthen your loving relationship.

Let’s face it, this kind of thing can be too hard to do on your own but relying on our girlfriends for support doesn’t always work out and can damage those all important relationships.

I offer you an unbiased supportive place to talk about anything without fear of judgement or later reprisal.

Working with me will help you to discover and remove old patterns that are no longer working for you and your relationship.

It will help you to discover a new fun, loving, intimate relationship filled with passion, excitement and spontaneity, the one you are actually wanting.

Our sessions enable you to rediscover your fun, cheeky side and feel confident and sexy to re-ignite the intimacy and happiness in your relationship.

You will experience more confidence and create a satisfying and happier life.

Still not sure which support service is right for you? Or you just a question.

Email us at

My team and I would be happy to answer your questions and help guide you in finding the right support for you and your relationship.

Free Resources to Help you Reconnect with your Parnter

Like to get to know a little more about me

What my clients have to say

“Hi, Pam I just wanted to thank you very much for all of your help and for going above and beyond for me including the counselling sessions! You were right, Everything worked out.  Thank you again, Pam. It’s good to see there are good people doing great things out there and I wish you well with your business and in life. Many thanks. Amy 🙂 ”


Brisbane Queensland!

“Working with Pam I quickly realised that motherhood had taken over who I was. I was no longer me and feeling stuck in my daily routine. Now I’ve got my self-confidence back and my life is fun. My relationship has come alive again and my partner is loving it.”  


Mother of 2

“Through working with Pam has definitely helped me to communicate better with my husband.

I’ve learned how to ask for what I want directly without beating around the bush!” 



As featured in

Pin It on Pinterest